後妻業の女
先週末（２７日 土）久しぶりに映画「後妻業の女」を観た。既に本は読んでおり粗筋は知っていたが、主演女優「大竹しのぶ」の好演もあり、面白く十分に楽しませてもらった。探偵は、悪徳ではあるが中々いい仕事をしており、現実味もあった。
これは映画の世界の事であるが、「現実は小説より奇なり」の言葉が有るように、2年程前にマスコミを賑わした、後妻業事件は、この映画を凌ぐものであった。
私と同世代、所謂団塊の世代が早や７０歳の声を聞くようになり、そこそこ裕福な独り者の高齢者世代が相当増えている。従って、これからの商売は、この年代をターゲットにしたものが注目株となる。実際に、中高年をターゲットとした、結婚相談所が結構流行っているらしい。
この世は男と女。しかも、男と女の関しては、基本男はバカ、女に敵うものでは到底ない。
そんなこんなを考えみると、「後妻業」は、今後の注目株になることに違いはなさそう。
この後妻業に太刀打ちできるのはただひとつ。それは、探偵社、興信所、所謂私どもが行う調査業のみ。後妻業の女にひかかってからでは後の祭り。弁護士も警察も何の役にも立たない。男と女の問題は、ことが起こる前に、相手を知って対処する以外に方法は無かろう。
ここで何時もの持論になるが、結婚調査はアク、人事調査はアク、個人人情報は本人承諾を得て、などと宣い、住民票も戸籍も非公開、無理してとるとご本人に通知す。これって本当にあり・・・。 こんな綺麗ごとで、公平で平穏な社会が築けると、真に人権論者は思っているのであろうか・・・？。
そう云えば、弊社で扱った調査で、以前こんなのが有った。男女共に４０歳そこそこ。男は初婚、女は再婚。知り合ったのは結婚相談所。半年の交際でめでたくゴールイン、２年目には子宝にも恵まれたが、子供ができた途端に女が豹変、男はいたたまれなくなり家を出て別居。その間に公正証書をまかされており、１億の現預金と、新婚家庭にと新築した１億強の家屋敷を取られ、その上子供も取られて、養育費の支払い義務だけ課されて離婚とあいなった御仁が居たが、これなど、命を取られなかっただけヨシとしたものか。
このケースは、別居し、どうにもならなくなってから、女の過去を調べてほしいとの依頼であったが、それこそ後の祭り。だいたい、結婚２年目で公正証書を強要するなど、計画性があるとしか思えないが、法的には公正証書は絶対。 トホホ・・・。
「転ばぬ先の杖」とはよくいったもの。しかし、転んでもいないのに、先に杖を持つことは、偉い人の社会ではいけない事らしい・・・。
Last weekend (Saturday, 27th), I watched the movie “The Woman Who Got Married” for the first time in a while. I had already read the book and knew the plot, but I was entertained by a good performance by the leading actress “Shinobu Otake”. The detective was doing a reasonably good job, albeit a bad one, and it was realistic.
As the saying goes, “Reality is stranger than fiction”, the case of the rearranged wife, which caused a stir in the mass media about two years ago, surpassed this film.
My generation, the so-called baby-boomer generation, is now hearing the voices of 70-year-olds, and the number of reasonably wealthy, single, elderly people is increasing considerably. Therefore, the future business will be those that target this age group. In fact, it seems that marriage counseling agencies targeting middle-aged and older people are quite popular.
The world is a man and a woman. What’s more, when it comes to men and women, men are basically idiots, and there’s no way they can compete with women.
Now that I think about it, I’m sure that the “rearranged wife business” will become a hot topic in the future.
After this, there is only one thing I can compete with in the wife business. We are the only detective agency or agency that does the investigative work. Once you fall for a woman in the wife’s business, it’s too late. Neither the lawyers nor the police are of any help. There is no other way to deal with a man and woman’s problems than to get to know them before they happen.
As I always say, marriage investigations should be conducted with the consent of the individual, personnel investigations should be conducted with the consent of the individual, and personal information should be obtained with the consent of the individual. This is really… Do human rights theorists really think that a fair and peaceful society can be built with such a neat little thing…?
By the way, one of the surveys we did was this Both men and women are about 40 years old or so. Men are married for the first time, women are remarried. I met him at a marriage agency. They were happily married for six months and had a baby in the second year, but as soon as they had a child, the woman changed her mind and the man couldn’t take it anymore, so they left home and lived apart. In the meantime, a notarial deed had been drafted and 100 million in cash and deposits and a newlywed family’s newly built house with over 100 million on it had been taken away.
In this case, after they separated and couldn’t get anything done, they asked me to look into the woman’s past, but that was the end of it. Forcing a notarial deed in the second year of marriage seems to me to be well planned, but legally, a notarial deed is a must. Toh-oh-oh…
It was well said, “The stick ahead that does not fall”. However, it seems that it’s not allowed in the society of great people to hold a cane first, even though you haven’t fallen down…
